Birthday fun

This morning, my kids kept asking where I was going to have my birthday party tonight. I had no plans. Maybe just eating out. 

But the kids wouldn’t let up. On the way to work, Sadie said I should go to Chuck E Cheese. Luke said I should go to Buffalo Wild Wings. We were just there the night before. 

Chris has been talking about doing something fun with the kids this week. 

I remembered I had a coupon to Urban Air for a free hour of jumping, so after I got to work, I asked Chris if we could go there. Caleb loves it and I figured the twins would too. My brother and sister-in-law live near there, so I asked if they wanted to come. Then I asked my parents if they wanted to come. One of my best friends who also lives near there texted me today and I asked if they wanted to come. 

And all of a sudden we had the makings of a pretty awesome party!  A fun location, family, friends…and mom even brought cupcakes!!

There is nothing that makes me more happy than seeing my kids have a blast and doing fun things together as a family. And any party where you can get away with acting silly and throwing soft dodge balls at your family members is good with me!!  I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect party!  35 year-old me and 7 of my favorite kids! 🙂   

    

 

Whole life ahead of you

A few weeks ago, I read an article about an 18 year old girl who had passed away where the statement was made “She had her whole life ahead of her.”

I immediately thought about how true that was. 

Then I thought about a friend who was quite a bit older than 18 who had also just passed away. This friend had her whole life ahead of her too. 

It doesn’t matter how old you are. Everyday of your life, you have your whole life ahead of you. 

Whether you are 10, 40, 60 or 80, you have the chance to live life to the fullest. Everyday is an opportunity. 

My grandmother is in her mid-80s and still says she feels like she is 16. 

Age does not determine how much life we have ahead of us. 

We do. 

Church Inspirations

I find myself in a lot of churches in meetings or like this weekend, in working music contests. When I go to other churches, I always keep my eyes open for inspirations and ideas. 

This week, I went to two churches. Here’s what I was inspired by:

I  had a meeting at The Village Church in Flower Mound. I loved these paintings in the children’s area. I love the colors, the creativity and thoughts. 

I also like the idea of this safety info hanging around the building.    

At Custer Road UMC, I love this idea from their bulletin!  What a special, loving thing to do for teenage moms!  

And they have great signage that gets my wheels turning.    

   

I like the idea of pictures in the halls showcasing their ministries and events.   

And remember my post about tassels?  Tassels on the bottom of this table cover!!   

And how can you not be inspired by this view!  I can almost hear angels singing! 🙂  

I love that I get to visit churches and steal, I mean borrow, or get inspired by others’ work and ideas!

The day encouragement went viral

I’m a member of a group on Facebook that includes people from all over the world who are hustling on their dreams.  They state what they are dreaming about, and then they work their tail-ends off on accomplishing their goals.  It’s wonderfully encouraging to see people get excited, decide to do something, take the leap, make mistakes, get back up again, and soar!  And it’s wonderful to watch these people encourage each other day after day in their work.

Today, a lady that’s been in the group from day one like me (and someone I think I would totally be BFF’s with if we lived close) asked if anyone needed encouragement.  She was going to be passing it out!

I sat back and watched people ask for encouragement and receive beautiful, thoughtful messages from this lady.  Then I finally thought “What the heck!  I’m going to ask for encouragement.  This looks fun!”  So I did.  Minutes later, I received this:

“Stephanie You’ve got a beautiful smile and that smile shines bright. The world seems so grey for so many, but you add color and brilliance to those around you. Just by being you. You may not always feel like you are, but you are. It’s what you were made to do and it just shines forth!”

Wow!  What a special note of encouragement from someone that I barely know from the internet!

This lady sent a message to every person that requested one.  And it was a lot of people!

She did something very meaningful for many people today, and she inspired me to write more notes, Facebook posts/messages, texts, etc. to encourage others.  It was fun to watch how her words lit people up.  Brought a smile to their faces.  Meant a lot to them.

I’ve found over the years that there are a few tips that help with writing notes of encouragement:

1. Make it timely.  When you notice something that someone has done, it’s good to let them know pretty quick that you saw what they did.  It’s fine to send notes later also, but it’s a big deal when people feel seen.  Someone noticed.

2. Make it specific.  Generic notes are fine, but notes that are specific are huge and even more meaningful.  People love when you take the time to notice details and comment on them.  The more specific, the better!

This lady did a great job at this today.

When was the last time you wrote a note of encouragement to someone?  Who has done something for you lately that you could thank?  Who have you noticed doing something spectacular (or even something tiny)?

Everyone loves encouragement.  We don’t give it often enough.  And like my friend said today, ” I think it’s important to speak life to others and lavish people with love. Love is something that needs to be shared!”

Encourage on!